There are times in our life when we know we’re in sync with the universe and 
all that is around us, and then there’s times when we feel as if we’re being hit from all angles.
Everyone experiences times where it appears nothing is going right. Try as we might we just can’t seem to move forward with our goals. From early childhood it on we’re taught to analyze, take steps to remedy an undesirable situation and then tackle the next event we are facing. However, when it appears as though the brick wall is too high to jump over, maybe we need to find an alternative method to reaching our goal. There also exists a great possibility that what you are trying to accomplish is not where you’re supposed to be, or something that would be ill fitting to your purpose. Are you open to change? Then, there are other times when we feel we are swimming upstream. What changed? Was it the planet’s alignment, did you wake up on the wrong side of the bed, or is the world just out to get you?
We all need help once in a while and this may be when we should sit back and allow spirit to take the reins. From personal experience I know that when I’ve been trying unsuccessfully at a task for a while I often throw up my hands in frustration, telling God that the ball is in his court, and that I’m done with this situation! By that point I’m often frustrated and very short on patience… sound familiar?
In a metaphysics class I was teaching just last night, we were discussing almost this exact same thing. Do you affirm your success by repeating throughout your day your desired result? We can accomplish much using the Law of Attraction and the Law of Abundance, however if a desired outcome is not in our best interest all the work we do maybe for naught. You may find down the road that something better comes your way – something much more appropriate to your needs. Are you willing to release the situation?
I suppose what I’m saying is rather simple. Sometimes we just have to follow God’s lead, but again, since we’re taught to analyze and correct, that may be easier said than done. This is where faith comes in – and a hefty dose of trust. Before too long you receive your message from spirit. It may come as a directive, a hunch, maybe you’ll hear something on the radio pertaining to your specific needs, maybe you’ll see a billboard advertising just what you’re looking for, and never dismiss the possibility of your desire falling into your lap!
Before you know it you’ll be off on your next adventure or challenge. Please realize that the abundance of help from spirit is astounding – you just need to ask.
Blessings ~ Lisa
Tina says
I don’t know how all this works, but I am trying to understand it all.
I lost someone I loved dearly (the love of my life), over two years ago now, and he died in a terrible way. I speak out loud to him often, and I fancy that I hear him saying (what I imagine he would say) back to me in my head. I have prayed for him to ‘haunt’ me, visit me in my dreams, show me that he is still ‘with’ me, but either I don’t realize that he is, or he just isn’t really ‘with’ me. I’m sure he has others to be with, his kids, other people who loved him. Sometimes I think he just might be ‘busy’ being there for them.
I fancied that if I drove to where he died, the house he died in, that somehow that would magically be where his soul is, since it was a tragic unexpected death. I’ve been watching all those television shows about spirits that stay behind in places where they might have died tragically.
Unfortunately, new people are now living there, so I couldn’t really just walk around the house and try to ‘sense’ if he soul is still there. I thought to ask them if they feel a ‘ghost’ around the house, but I thought they’d think me a mad woman and call the police or something.
I want to be ‘open’ to his spirit visiting me, but I am also afraid (based on some of those television programs) of inviting an unwanted entity instead).
I DO believe in a spirit world. I want so much to connect to him in some way. I don’t know how to go about it, or whether it is even safe to try, etc.
How does all this work? What do I need to do?
Lisa Bousson says
Hi Tina,
I’m terribly sorry that you lost your love – especially in such a tragic way.
Yes, sometimes our spirit does remain where the last known live memory took place, but that isn’t always the case. Your loving thoughts are what attracts him to you. Just talk to him, pray for him, include him in your thoughts. Doing so will not attract an unwanted spirit. The only time you would attract other spirit is when you’re “playing” with a psychic tool such as a Ouija Board that you hadn’t blessed. Realize that you will attract to yourself that which you are, so keep your thoughts, words and actions pure.
You can always use Spiritual Medium (such as myself) to try to make the connection you’re seeking. Now, don’t get me wrong, any Medium that says they can guarantee the presence of a specific spirit is telling you a falsehood. Always trust your gut instinct when choosing a Medium – you’ll not be sorry.
Blessings ~ Lisa