I’m sure you’ve all experienced (maybe even firsthand) the negativity of the past year. I won’t go into the battles we’ve all endured, however, I simply want to share my empathy with each of you. I know, firsthand, how the ravages of 2020 affected not only myself but also my family. My prayer is that you didn’t suffer the loss of a loved one, you didn’t lose your job, you and your loved ones survived COVID thus far… the prayers are endless!
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The enormity of pain parents feel when their child passes away is unfathomable for those of us who haven’t experienced such a tragic and untimely loss. In my work as a medium I often feel the agony the family feels, and I fight to contain my emotions. Please understand that through experience, and learning to control these emotions, doesn’t mean I’m uncaring, or that I don’t have empathy. The truth couldn’t be furthest from this!
I try to remain in control of myself so that I can continue to serve both spirit and you. What good would I be to anyone if I were to allow myself to fall into a puddle of tears? Repressing the emotions does take its toll, however. I feel drained, lethargic, mentally tapped out, and often schedule breaks in my schedule for “Me” days. Me days where I’m not intentionally connecting to the world of spirit because I need the mental break, days when I take care of my emotional, physical, mental and spiritual health.
So, if you know of someone who has lost a child, please empathize with them, but don’t burden them with feeling the need to console YOU. Just be the open door they may need. Allow them to shed their tears openly. Listen with a compassionate year, and open your heart to send them your love.
© 2016 Lisa Bousson
