When we’re young, we often try to be who we aren’t. Many of us, as adults, still wish that we had the life of another. We think that the lives of others have less stress, less anxiety or less heartache than our own – and we may be right!
Karmic lessons and family issues aside (because these are things you cannot change) – you can alter your own life. You can make your life into what it is you desire. You can live a life similar to another whom you admire. But, are you willing to do the same work they did to get where they are? 
That is the sticking point for most of us.
So, instead of trying to be another person, out of admiration, I’m suggesting that you emulate them to the best of your ability. What are their traits, which you admire? Begin using them in your own life.
If the person you would like to be is successful in relationships, be a better person yourself, maintaining your current relationships and building new ones. If the person you would like to be is successful in business, emulate those who are a success in their field.
The Law of Attraction says that we will attract to us that which we are. So, the more energy you put into being someone “better”, the more likely that it will become a reality – and you will no longer need to fake it.
Blessings ~ Lisa
